Perhaps, for the family page (for now) we could use a design based this:
(no need to guess where that came from 🙂 )
Not so sure about Country should only be there if the country is different from language. Things that show for some people and not others are messy to design because space must always be allowed. I prefer either no place ever, or just country (or whatever the final part of PLAC tag is).
Names must also be abbreviated as some are very long. This is already done in the existing “compact” view.