FYI: Settings for SMTP mail solved the problems of not receiving emails. Used my settings for the web host of the site.
I got password reset for A-D site, I got emails sent to Contact Us, I got copy of email sent from Manage users to a user. Within the user profile, I left it as kiwitrees sends email (don’t have syntax in front of me but it’s whatever default is).
Wanted to put this on file so it can be referred to “just in case….”